Courage to be happy!

"kung di mo rin lang kayang kantahin ang isang kanta, hayaan mo na lang ito at pakinggan habang kinakanta ng iba.."

dalawang bagay lang yan, (1) mapapaos ka na nga, magmumukha ka pang tanga, o (2) mageenjoy at makikihum ka na lang habang kinakanta siya ng "TAMA" ng iba. 

"kumbaga sa pag-ibig, kung talagang mahal mo siya, pero hindi talaga kayo para sa isa't isa, hayaan mo nalang siyang maging masaya sa piling ng taong mas mahal niya."

Parang bulaklak lang yan, kung hindi mo kayang alagaan, huwag mo na lang pitasin. Hayaan mo na lang siya sa taong mas mag-aalaga, magpapahalaga at magmamahal sa kanya. Okay, assuming you can do it, but someone else can do it better than you. Let go if you can't handle the situation. Let go.

There may be dignity in not giving up on someone you truly love, but there is more dignity in letting them go so they can experience better love. You just have to have the courage: to take some risks, to let go, to feel the pain, and to be happy. After all, life is about the choices we make.

Have the courage to choose the things that will make you truly happy! 

Know your limitations and defy them.

Make a lot of friends, then filter them. 

Fall in love, but ALWAYS guard your heart. 

Break the rules.

Set yourself free.

YOU DESERVE TO BE HAPPY!

...tbc

p.s. Sorry for the disorganized thoughts, it's the time of the month so I just need an outlet. 😛😁😌☺️😊

Midlife what?

So I've noticed that my usual self is not the usual self that I am used to. I've been thinking too much and too far from the present scenario.

until I bumped off with this list...

✅ Looking into the mirror and you no longer recognize yourself

⁉️ Desiring to quit a good job.

✅ Unexplained bouts of depression when doing tasks that used to make you happy.

✅ Change of habits. Activities which used to bring pleasure now are boring. Unable to complete or concentrate on tasks which used to be easy.

✅ It feels good to get hurt.

✅ Wanting to run away from everything.

✅ A desire to get into physical shape.

✅ Irritability or unexpected anger.

✅ A desire to surround yourself with different settings.

✅ Desiring a simple life.

✅ Keep re-asking yourself: “Where am I going with my life?

 And it goes on and on and on..

Then I wondered, "when will it be popped out? Somebody let me know please!"

...

Okay. I am running out of ideas now. I just need a venting space for this. 😔😌😐😕😯😑

...

By the way, dreams, they suck! Oh please subconscious mind, stop messing around.. 

Bicol Escapade

8 hours by bus and another 2 hours by boat..

HELLO CALAGUAS!!

"wala namang nakakakilala satin, tara, two-piece na!!" -monmon

We left early the next day. Again, 2 hrs by sea going to Paracale, 45 minutes to Daet, another 2 hrs to Naga and 2 and a half hours para marating ang kaharian ni Salve sa Legazpi. Almost whole day travel para lang nakakain ng Alimango at native na Bicol Express. Fiesta sa dining table nila Salve!!

siyempre, last stop.. Cagsawa Ruins :) Buti na lang nagpakita si Mayon..

Tinatamad ako magsulat, next time na ang matinong write up. :)

SPUR

Life is a matter of choice and perspective.